EliteSingles Review


EliteSingles is best for university graduates and professionals age 30+ looking for long-term commitment. The site is for gay, lesbian and straight singles, and uses a lengthy personality test to suggest matches. EliteSingles is one of the fastest growing dating sites, boasting 18,000 new members each week and over 13 million already signed up.

   Best for: matching with like-minded people

   User base: educated professionals looking for something serious

   Number of members: 165,000 new registrations in the US every month

   Recommended age: 35+

   Favorite features: Personality testing & expert matchmaking


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  • Compatibility test based on Big 5 Model of Personality
  • Over 80% university graduates


  • Relatively high monthly cost
  • No instant chat feature or video chat

Signup Process & Profile Building

EliteSingles believes that the key to compatibility is personality matchmaking, so the signup process requires an investment of time and honesty. Users should set aside at least half an hour to work their way through the personality quiz.

In the first steps of signup, you will need to enter your gender, the gender you are interested in, and an email address. You will then be prompted to begin the full signup process. The option to save and continue later exists at any point, but avoiding the quiz is impossible.

The quiz begins with sharing basic information including:

  • Education level
  • Date of birth
  • Marital status

Users will be prompted to enter their religion, and what religious expectations they have of a partner, for example if a shared faith or cultural background is essential.

The idea of the quiz is for EliteSingles to really understand who you are and what you are looking for in a match. For this reason, many of the questions are very personal and may require some thought. Most questions use a sliding scale from ‘doesn’t apply’ to ‘completely applicable.’ Below are a few examples of what users can expect.

  • Can you keep calm in a stressful situation?
  • Do you believe in monogamy in a relationship?
  • Do you try to make sure other people feel good?
  • Are you frugal?
  • Are you opinionated?
  • Do you have a strong moral code?

Upon completing the quiz, singles will be asked to choose four words their friends would use to describe them. The next section of the signup process involves choosing the hobbies you want a prospective partner to enjoy. These range from travel and cooking, to spending time with family and friends. The final section covers drinking and smoking habits, and children.

All of these elements help EliteSingles create a powerful algorithm which works well to match like-minded singles.

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EliteSingles offers free registration for members though while you can technically register for free, you can’t contact potential matches unless you become a paid member.

There are 3 paid options and the most popular one is Premium Classic, which is sometimes offered at a discounted rate. The chart below outlines the options, how much each costs, and what comes with each package.

DurationPrice per Month
12 months$33.95
6 months$44.95
3 months$57.95
1 month$119.95

Matchmaking & Search Functions

Users cannot search freely for potential matches on the site. Rather, EliteSingles suggests potential matches. These suggested matches can be narrowed down with the help of some simple search criteria.

While you cannot make changes to the personality quiz once it’s been taken, some parts of your selected personal preferences can be altered. This includes parameters such as distance, age, lifestyle habits or physical appearance.

The fun and addictive Have You Met game introduces users to new singles who might not have appeared in daily matches. Sometimes this even introduces two singles who may never have met one another through the scientific algorithm alone. After all, opposites attract!


EliteSingles does the bulk of the hard work behind the scenes, leaving the singles to enjoy online dating.


Every day, members receive between 3-7 matches to both their EliteSingles homepage and email inbox. Premium membership unlocks up to 20 more daily Wildcard matches. These are chosen based on an extensive matching algorithm which is based on the key elements of a user’s personality.

The personality quiz results can be seen from the profile tab. EliteSingles uses the Big 5 Model of Personality for its matchmaking. This model is based on psychology studies showing that the key factor to a successful relationship is the right balance of 5 personality traits.

The five traits are:

  • Extroversion
  • Conscientiousness
  • Agreeability
  • Neuroticism
  • Openness


The EliteSingles dating profile is the hub of the activity on the site. As well as displaying the personality test results, users can include information about themselves, their interests and their hobbies. EliteSingles even has expert profile advice available if singles need a bit of support standing out from the crowd or crafting a strong profile.


It’s essential to take the time to upload photos as they significantly improve the chance of getting contacted. Members can either take them directly by camera, upload from a computer or phone, or even take photos instantly from a synced Facebook account. EliteSingles lets members upload up to 24 photos to their profile, which gives plenty of opportunity to show various sides of their personality. While singles aren’t forced to upload any photos at all, EliteSingles does note that profiles with at least one good quality image attached are 8 times more likely to be contacted.

Communication Tools

  • Smiles to show interest
  • 5 ice-breaker questions
  • Inbox messaging

Mobile Availability

In terms of dating on the go, EliteSingles has powerful and intuitive mobile apps for both iOS and Android devices. These let users check and respond to messages, upload photos and keep track of interactions all from a handheld or mobile device.

At a glance, users will be able to see who has looked at their profile, who has added them to favorites, and which singles they themselves have favorited. EliteSingles is dedicated to helping users find a compatible match every step of the way.

Safety & Security

Security is essential, especially when it comes to online dating and EliteSingles takes safety very seriously. The manual verification of profiles and photos is one important step which ensures no scam artists are allowed into the site. In addition, the site employs software which ensures no photos can be copied or downloaded from the site.

All data is protected with SSL security, the most trusted and secure layer of encryption possible. The small lock icon on the URL is a sign that members can feel confident entering financial information. Another noteworthy aspect is the “https” which shows that the site has strong security on every page of the site.

EliteSingles has a dedicated fraud team in place which makes keeping the site safe and secure its top priority. Finally, premium members can take advantage of ID authentication which gives an added layer of security when talking to new people.

What Users are Saying

“The site really does the tough work for you. I have received some great suggestions for matches so far and trust that I will meet my person through EliteSingles.” - Julie, June 25, 2017

“EliteSingles is rather expensive. Still, this eliminates the scammers and overall I like the service.” - Paul, May 9, 2017

Help & Support

The EliteSingles help center makes it incredibly simple to find answers to the vast majority of customer queries and concerns. The search bar is responsive and powerful, and gives the option to look for articles and support via keyword.

In case members can’t find the answers they need and are looking for further assistance, they can get in touch with customer care 24 hours a day. The best way to do this is via the “contact us” form from the help center, but users can also send a fax or even a letter. The customer support team is based in Germany which means that their response hours will be between 9-6 GMT+1.

The team replies to every single message, and promises to guide members through any issues using the site and the mobile app, including directing them to the right member of staff or department for their specific enquiry.

Bottom Line

EliteSingles is the perfect dating choice for professional singles between the ages of 30-55 looking to settle down, and find love and marriage. The personality quiz successfully helps 2,500 singles find love every month. The security tools are second to none, and the site stays ahead of the game by merging with social media and providing easy to use and gorgeously designed mobile apps.

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