Recently Out? Here’s How To Navigate The Lesbian Dating World


Lesbian dating after coming out

By Top10BestDatingSites Staff

Whether you're a teenager or a woman in your 50s, you have recently come out as a lesbian and it was the most difficult and exciting thing you have ever done. Be proud! You have successfully navigated the tenuous first steps of acknowledging your sexuality and dealing with the reactions of your friends and family when you made your announcement. Now what?

The next and most important step is to put yourself into the lesbian dating world and begin the process of finding the right woman for you.

Starting Out

Now that you have come out, you’re probably anxious to begin your quest for companionship. And there’s no better place to start figuring out your type than on lesbian dating sites, which offer a safe and secure way to meet other women.

Lesbian dating sites give you a chance to discover like-minded women, including options for women of all ages, in a non-threatening format. For example, if you are in your 50s or older, SeniorPeopleMeet caters directly to you. Here you'll find women in your age group who are looking to meet others on a site that serves just you.

For those of you who are younger, a site like Compatible Partners, renowned success in making perfect matches, is strictly for gays and lesbians. Users complete a comprehensive questionnaire and are then matched based on three key dimensions. The proven premise of using these dimensions to match people is the likelihood of forming long term, solid relationships.

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When You Do Find Someone To Date

It’s easy to go through the process of signing up and completing questionnaires, but when you have to put yourself out there, it’s often a different story, especially when you are just coming out. With the number of women on dating sites, sooner or later you will come across someone you’d like to meet.

Don’t be afraid of making the first move. Send her a flirt or an email and invite her to chat with you. Most sites now have video chats where you can see each without the anxiety of a real face-to-face meeting. If this works out, ask her on a real date.

Match has a large lesbian dating membership with great online communication tools that are easy to use. One feature is its Stir program where you can actually meet other lesbians in your own locality. Match also offers mobile apps where you receive matches on-the-go, complete with explanations about your compatibility.

When it comes to flexibility, Zoosk offers a variety of search options for lesbian dating. Most exciting is its Scientific Matchmaking Service where you are sent a new daily profile matched for you based on your own activity on the site.

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