5 Things You Must Have on Your Gay Dating Profile


By Top10BestDatingSites Staff

Single members engaged in online dating are one of the fastest growing communities in America; this is especially true for gay men. While this means that your chances of finding Mr. Right greatly improve, it also means that your dating profile needs to be not only eye-catching, but enticing. Due to the sheer volume of online profiles, you often only get the one first impression--and most times, this impression only lasts a few minutes (sometimes even less!).

For those reasons, it is crucial that your online dating profile is visually appealing and concise. Mundane profiles will be glossed over, not given a second thought. If you want to ensure your profile isn’t skipped over and engaging, make sure that you have these five things in your dating profile.

1. A Picture Worth 1,000 Words

We have all heard this expression before, “a picture is worth a thousand words." Use one of those pictures, rather than a bland, one hundred word picture. Your profile picture should be expressive of your personality and what you’re looking for. In the world of online dating, profile pictures are more like gatekeepers. They are often the first and last thing that users look at.

There’s no need to hire a professional photographer and rent out a studio, but you should use a picture that shows some substance. Posing with your MacBook, your Hydroflex surfboard, or new Maltese puppy shows your hobbies and interests. Furthermore, it makes for a useful conversation starter.

2. A Relevant and Updated Profile

Ensure that you update your profile regularly with current and relevant material. If someone is going to swoon over your profile, they want to get a feel for who you are through your words and the information you provide. Keep your profile open and honest. If you like gay men fashion, put it in your profile; if you love to work out and are looking for someone who does so as well, put it in your profile; if you enjoy doing drag on Friday nights, put in your profile. Be truthful. Share information that describes exactly who you are and post a picture that represents what you really look like. Putting great effort into your profile lets other users know that you’re taking online dating seriously. You would be surprised at how effective—and refreshing—it is when you are open and honest about your dating profile.

3. Share Your Best Traits

You’ve enticed a viewer with your picture. Now comes the important part: building a connection. They may think you’re attractive, but so are many other gay men on this site.

Now you must win them with your story, who you really are. Include an honest and insightful bio. The more information you provide, the more a user can evaluate if you are an interesting match and have the characteristics of gay men that he is looking for. Most online dating websites have their own special features that make meeting others easier. One of the better features is The Carousel. This feature from Zoosk, makes finding complementary profiles a breeze.

Make sure to scan your dating website for features like The Carousel so you can adapt your profile to it. For example, without a good profile picture and an interesting bio, chances are that your profile will be skipped on The Carousel.

4. A Steady Income

“For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer." A great line for wedding vows once you are in love; however, no one is too excited to start a relationship with someone without a job. It might not be the most important part of a relationship, but financial security is a major part of what makes or breaks a couple. You don’t have to have your dream career or your entire life planned out, but a job to pay the bills and a plan for the future is a must. Put those in your profile. Trust us: people are looking intently at those details.

5. Don’t Just Describe, Show

Describing yourself with endless adjectives is not too creative and quite boring to read through. Instead of writing and telling that these are your qualities and interests, SHOW that they are. When you write that you love working out every morning, you effectively show that you are athletic and active. By saying that you love cooking for your friends, you paint a picture of you as a very social and creative person. This approach will prove very useful for daters to get to know you and find you interesting. Also, by giving examples of what you do instead of what you are, it allows people to relate to you. This way you might even meet someone to join you on your morning workout, or cook a great dinner with you! Wouldn't that be nice?

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Now that you know what gay men are looking at in your profile, why not get started today? Check out the top gay dating sites and attract your match!

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