Fall In Love, Just Don’t Fall for These Online Dating Scams


By Top10BestDatingSites Staff

Seduction falls under the realm of flirting, however, at what point does the art form of seduction go from flirtation to scams on gay dating sites? Seduction adds the allure of getting to know someone with the idea of obtaining the ultimate prize, love. Whether you think of yourself as the sexy, seduction type or not, it is part of the dating game, and those you are dating with try to seduce you -- it’s Love 101.

It’s no wonder why gay singles have taken to the online dating scene. For one, it’s practically free (it is certainly much cheaper than several first dates at Starbucks). Moreover, it provides the speed dating experience without ever leaving home. Since most men don’t meet in person until they’ve taken a lot of time to get to know each other online, there is sometimes a false sense of security when it comes to online dating.

While sites like SeniorPeopleMeet continually improve their already-rigorous security to thwart scammers and catfish, knowing what to look for is the best way to defend oneself from danger. Unfortunately, both female and male scammers on dating sites have seen the great potential of wealth that can be generated by running scams on gay dating site members, and they often attempt to target new members in the dating community.

Look For Scams On Gay Dating Sites

The online dating arena is jam-packed with gay singles who want to find love; they want love, and they want it fast. Relatively speaking, speed is good. But can you really entrust your heart to someone you just met online?

Now that you’ve started to ask the important questions, here are some more to consider: Are you talking to a real person or a con artist using a model’s sensual photo to entice you? Is your dating partner ready to take the relationship out of the virtual online dating arena and get up close and personal? If no, why not? Why is your online boyfriend evasive when it comes to meeting, talking on the phone, or discussing their history?

It is unfortunate, but these are some of the questions those on dating sites must ask. Because of scams on gay dating sites, it can sometimes be hard to know who to trust. Time and again, your friends remind you, “If it’s too good to be true, then it probably isn’t true." If your gut feel tells you something does not feel right, listen to your gut.

Watch out for male scammers on dating sites

Nigerian Dating Scams

Possibly some of the oldest tricks in the book are the Nigerian dating scams. These scams, like the majority of online dating scams, always involve asking for money. After creating a blossoming relationship with you--using a fake online dating profile - they spring on you that they need financial assistance: broken-down cars and emergency hospital bills are the most commonly used excuses.

While Nigerian dating scams are impossible to avoid, they are possible to beat. If you find yourself in a situation in which you believe you might be getting scammed, ask a third-party - someone without an emotional attachment - to get involved.

Top Ways To Detect Male Scammers On Dating Sites

Pay attention and outsmart cyber criminals with these common tell-tale signs that indicate whether you are dealing with a cyber-scammers. Here are some of the most popular red flags as listed on Zoosk:

1. Poor Spelling and Grammar

If a person tells you that he’s born in the United States yet cannot construct sentences fairly well, then this could be because English is, in fact, his second language and your potential date could be chatting with you from another country.

2. “Model" Pictures

Most cyber criminals use Photoshop-edited images which are mostly taken in studios rather than pictures taken in common settings like at home with family, in school, or at work with colleagues. If he or she cannot come up with a “normal" picture (or even a selfie), then it is possible that these were taken from an online portfolio from an obscure model. You can make sure you are talking to the real guy in the picture by asking him to take a picture with your name written on his hand in marker.

3. Profile Too Perfect

If you are reading someone’s profile after they contact you, and it reads as if it is the man of your dreams, chances are that they custom built it entirely for you. If you notice that their hobbies and interests are eerily similar to yours, be wary and vet them with detailed questions.

By looking for red flags, listening to your gut, and checking out the rest of our articles on online dating safety, you’ll be able to date to your heart’s content without concern of being scammed.

Armed with the knowledge to thwart the most common gay dating scams, now use the best tools online to find your perfect match.

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