4 Rules for Online Dating Success During the Holidays

The holiday season is prime time for online dating. New sign ups surge during the time between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day, as millions head to dating sites looking for someone to get through all that turkey and eggnog with.

So take advantage of this swell of singles and up your chances of finding love during the holidays with our 4 must-follow rules for dating success.


1. Start early

You’ve got a big holiday party coming up in two weeks and you really want to bring a date. So you message the first thirty people who catch your eye on Zoosk and send them the same copy/paste generic introductory message and then sit back and wait to see who bites.

Wrong move.

Instead of a last minute push to find a date, start the process early. This way, you won’t have to compromise and won’t end up going on dates you’re not that interested in solely for the company.

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2. Learn to say yes

The holiday season is the perfect time to get out of your comfort zone and try new things. Say yes to someone you might’ve initially passed on, send the first message or switch up dinner and drinks for a stroll through the park.

Take advantage of your vacation time, embrace the holiday cheer around you and open yourself up to different opportunities. As cheesy as it sounds, the best things really do happen outside your comfort zone.

3.Switch it up

You’ve been on OKCupid for 6 months and it hasn’t been awful but it hasn’t really worked the way you were hoping either.

So, switch it up.

Try a new app, like Match.com or Elite Singles, or add some new info to your current dating profile. Just swapping out some older photos will breathe fresh air into the whole dating process, which can help a lot if you’re experiencing dating fatigue.

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4. Out with the old in with the new

It’s almost the new year and that usually means taking stock of the past 12 months and looking ahead. So get rid of nagging vices, extinguish old flames, and put yourself into a more positive headspace.

New year, new you, right?

Release your inhibitions, take charge of your life and get out there and make things come to you. And when they do come to you, take the reigns and embrace it all.

Because finding love online isn’t only for a select few - it’s been proven time and again to be one of the best ways to meet people and form long lasting relationships. It’s all about how you approach it, and making it work for you.

So this holiday season take a new approach to online dating. And if you need a little more help getting started, we’re here for you.

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