Young people shouldn't date in order to be popular, go along with the rest of the dating crowd (peer pressure), or to gain some type of security. Older Christians and adults should also keep in mind the principles of dating set forth by the Bible. Here are some important Biblical guidelines for dating (including online Christian dating):

The Bible tells us to be very careful about giving our affections, because our heart influences everything else in our life. "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life" (Proverbs 4:23). Guard your heart in a Christian relationship and take your time to get to know the other person fully (especially when communicating online) before giving of your heart.

Associate with other people who are good Christians with good character, because we tend to become like the company we keep. "Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character" (1 Corinthians 15:33).

As a Christian, be careful when using the word "love" until you are sure that it is what you are actually feeling. How can you determine if you are really in love? Use these definitions set forth by 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 which define real love:

Here are some questions to ask yourself about your dating behavior or online dating behavior (as outlined in the Bible) that will provide you with some further Christian dating guidelines:

1. Does a dating situation I put myself into invite sexual immorality? What steps can I take to avoid these situations?
2. What kind of reputation does my potential date have? Is that a good or bad reputation? Is it a Christian reputation?
3. Will there be any pressure to use alcohol or drugs or betray the values set forth for Christians in the Bible?
4. Have I sent any messages that might be attracting the wrong person through my behavior, verbally, or through online communications such as email, social media, or chat rooms?
5. Am I respecting myself and the other person in the relationship?
6. Am I being polite and respectful of the other person's feelings?
7. Are we compatible and do we both have the same morals, goals, and values?
8. Am I finding potential dates and mates in the right place? One good place to find Christians is through online dating services that make matches for Christian couples. Church functions are also another great opportunity to meet like-minded Christian singles. To find the best dating sites, including Christian dating sites, click here.