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How to Find a Sexy College Date Online
By Nida Sea
College is supposed to be about studying hard and working to graduate with honors—not! Young people get to college hoping for parties, booze, and sexy college dates. Dating in college isn’t hard, but it’s not easy either. There’s a certain method to college dating, and we have the best ways to find a sexy college date online here.
1. Dating Sites For College Students
One of the simplest ways for you to find a sexy college date is to use online dating sites. Don’t just use any dating site—use ones the college students use!
Popular dating sites for college students include:
There are many more, but these are considered the more popular sites. Armed with dating apps and thousands of single college students, you’ll find a sexy college date quick.
2. Local College Students
Dating sites expand your horizons to new people from all over the world. But, the world might be too much to take on as a college student. You’re just getting to know people in your local college! Don’t worry, you won’t have to search all over the world for a sexy college date. Instead, just look for singles at local colleges near you.
Many of the popular dating sites for college students let you view single men and women who go to the same college as you or near you. Search by city or zip code to begin, and check into the education section for the profiles.
If the profile doesn’t list their college, you can also ask. This is a great way to get a conversation started, especially if you two are just a few miles from each other!
3. Message the Hotties
So yeah, if you’re in the vicinity of that cute girl or hot guy, why not send a message? It’s easy, just click message on their profile, write a quick message, and you’re done!
Well, so it’s not as easy as all that. It may be difficult for you to write a good message. Maybe you’re nervous? Maybe you don’t know what to say. Whatever the case, messaging someone is not hard to do.
Check out their profile and pick out something that interests you. Find a hobby or event that they enjoy and you like, too. Message them about that kind of stuff.
Sending messages like “You’re Hot,” and “I want you,” are a total turn off—even if you’re just joking.
4. Create A Killer Profile
No, you don’t get to join dating sites and leave your profile blank. C’mon now, you can’t expect to get any hot college dates if you don’t talk about yourself.
Creating a great profile isn’t hard. As a college student, you have LOTS to talk about. But, don’t make the mistake of being flat. Be 3-D on your profile. How do you do that? It’s simple!
Instead of saying, “I’m a regular funny guy who likes to make others laugh.” Snore. Totally boring.
Try this instead: “So, when we start dating, we can go wherever you like except [insert popular caf? name], because they kicked me out for juggling plastic cups while dressed as a mime. Wasn’t pretty and they threw donuts at me. But hey, at least I got free donuts.”
See the difference? If you’re personality stands out, show it. Don’t tell it.
5. Fun Selfies Only
Remember when your mom took you to a portrait studio as a kid? You had to hold still and wear dorky outfits while a photographer dangled a toy in your face to make you smile? Yeah, you didn’t like it then, and you don’t like it now—neither do hot dates.
Don’t take boring photos. Take fun selfies to post on your profile. Take photos of yourself when you’re out at the beach surfing. Snap a shot of you with your pet while taking them a bath. Or, get your friends to catch a photo of you when you’re just being yourself.
People like honesty and natural settings, so let the selfies fly!
6. List Where You Like To Go For Fun Dates
Yes, this is almost like making a killer profile. But you can use this in messages. The best dates are usually the fun ones. No one wants to go to a boring dinner and a boring movie, because it just leads to a boring date that will probably never happen again.
Depending on your local area, tell your date about the things you like to do. Into mountain climbing? Hit the local gym together and make it a day of climbing. Maybe you’re into water skiing? Get the swim vests and head to the lake.
The typical dating scene doesn’t cut it anymore. College kids are into fun and excitement, so make your date a memorable one!
7. Take A Chance!
The worst thing you can possible do is NOT take a chance. Maybe you’ve found the right girl or guy, but you’re still worried about if it’ll work or not.
Stop. Just STOP. This isn’t a lifelong commitment here! You’re on these college dating sites to have fun, flirt, and date. You’re still in college, trying to decide what to do with your life, why are you fretting if you’ll be together forever?
Life’s too short to worry and miss out on good dating opportunities. So, look up that girl or guy you like, make a short funny message, and hit send. That’s it! Let things go from there and just enjoy the ride.