Twelve years after Seinfeld ended, and you're still a neurotic New Yorker single man (or woman) looking for love! As much as you would like to meet someone special, you seem to be stuck meeting the Newman's, Puddy's and George's of the world. If you're a guy, you're probably tired of dating the same old man-hands, two-faces and, of course, that girl that eats her peas one at a time.

It's hard to find someone you like, and the sheer size of New York City doesn't help matters. There are 8,391,881 people in New York City alone, making it the largest city in terms of dense population anywhere in the country. You better believe there is a huge number of New York single dwellers in the city! New York City is unique, because although it combines a huge variety of cultures (Jewish, African-American, Italian, Asian, Arabic and many others), it becomes a melting pot of ethnicity and everyone eventually takes on a distinctive "New York City" style personality. There is definitely plenty of fun dating sites in town, from art galleries to operas, theaters, museums and coffee shops.

However, many people warn newcomers that New York single life is faster than a subway. Bar life and hopping changes quickly; new businesses come and go in a matter of months, and events are always happening. Let's face it, New York City is not known for being a "nice state." Everyone's in a hurry in the Big Apple and they talk fast, think fast and reject annoying people fast. It's hard to imagine ever becoming comfortable with the New York single dating scene.

This is why you should consider New York single dating online. Whether you live in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, The Bronx, or Staten Island, rest assured there is someone who is compatible living near you. However, it's not very likely that you're going to meet this person on the subway. Nobody talks to subway creeps, right? You could try to meet someone at the clubs, but it's hard to be smooth while screaming over the music.

The best option for you, if you really want to meet someone compatible, is to use a New York singles dating site. A website like Chemistry.com or Match.com could help you filter out the "wrong types" and bring you someone that you really like. Matchmaking sites focus on the intellectual and mental connection, not just looks and first impressions. Sound like a good idea to you? Giddy up!