What is the problem with club dating? Whenever you're feeling lonely, the first place you go is to a bar or club, right? No doubt, a club has a very seductive atmosphere. A nightclub, also called a discotheque, is a nighttime venue offering drinks, strobe lights and wild music. The atmosphere, in theory, helps people to relax, have a good time, and perhaps act a little uninhibited around attractive new friends. It's a great scene-if you love dancing.

However, if you don't like rave dancing, then club dating is not for you. Besides, when the music is playing at full blast, it's hard to communicate with someone you just met. You're not expected to talk; you're expected to dance and flirt (without words) and then maybe talk after a night of drunken sex. Club dating is very young and fun, but it's not for people who are interested in a long-term relationship. While not all club dating is as extreme as a rave club, the fact remains: it's difficult to get to know a person when there is so much activity going on.

How about an alternative to club dating in online dating? Online dating lets you stay in the comfort of your own home. You don't have to worry about being outside your comfort zone when you date online. Furthermore, you don't have to worry about bouncer discrimination. That's right, in major city urban club dating, you can be denied entry into a club for any reason including race, looks and dress.

Why waste time with club dating when you can get all of the thrills, good looks, sexy chat and enjoyable time from an online dating site? Not only do you get to ogle at a new friend's sexy profile picture, but you can also talk about the things in life that really matter-like common goals, interests, hobbies and life experience.

You don't have to put yourself at risk when you meet someone online. You talk only as long as you are comfortable. You don't have to meet anyone that you don't want to. There's hardly such a thing as a bad blind date. When you find a person "lacking", you just don't chat with them anymore. It's as simple as that.

If you are tired of club dating and want some smart conversation for a change, why not give online dating a chance? Match.com and other sites like it can fix you up with someone in your local area. You could be seriously dating within the month!